As I Lay Dying - Guitarist Leaves The Band, Posts Statement
As I Lay Dying has recently had wave after wave after wave after wave of members quitting the band, both longtime members and newly hired guns, after the band reunited following the band's initial break-up that resulted from frontman Tim Lambesis plotting to kill his wife. Now, longtime guitarist since 2003 and last remaining member besides Tim Lambesis, Phil Grosso, also quit the band. Read his statement about the current state of As I Lay Dying and the cancellation of the European tour below.
Phil Grosso posted the following: "Hey everyone, thank you for your patience as I took time to gather my thoughts before speaking on the current state of As I Lay Dying. With recent events, including the departure of band members and the cancellation of our European tour ahead of a new album release, it’s clear we’re in a difficult and serious situation. Simply put, recent actions have shown that As I Lay Dying no longer offers a healthy or safe environment for anyone involved—whether creatively, personally, or professionally. After witnessing some concerning patterns of behavior, I’ve realized that I can no longer, in good conscience, enable further actions that could negatively affect anyone working within this space. For these reasons, I feel it’s in my best interest to completely distance myself, both creatively and personally, from As I Lay Dying.
"I also want to share my full support for Ryan, Ken, and Nick, who made the choice to step away recently. I’m grateful for our accomplishments and friendship over the past 3 years. With 21 years that I have dedicated to this band, it does not sit well with me to leave or abandon what I’ve considered to be my “life’s work.” I don’t feel that I, or others, should be forced out like so many have in the past. After all that’s been put into this, I believe that with the right adjustments and restructuring, our music can continue to thrive and explore new possibilities in a healthier environment. Over time, As I Lay Dying has been held back by dysfunction, and I feel that it’s no longer my responsibility to bear that burden. Thank you to everyone who has shown support for me and the music of As I Lay Dying. I’m looking forward to putting my energy and creativity into new, more positive ventures in the near future."
Phil Grosso posted the following: "Hey everyone, thank you for your patience as I took time to gather my thoughts before speaking on the current state of As I Lay Dying. With recent events, including the departure of band members and the cancellation of our European tour ahead of a new album release, it’s clear we’re in a difficult and serious situation. Simply put, recent actions have shown that As I Lay Dying no longer offers a healthy or safe environment for anyone involved—whether creatively, personally, or professionally. After witnessing some concerning patterns of behavior, I’ve realized that I can no longer, in good conscience, enable further actions that could negatively affect anyone working within this space. For these reasons, I feel it’s in my best interest to completely distance myself, both creatively and personally, from As I Lay Dying.
"I also want to share my full support for Ryan, Ken, and Nick, who made the choice to step away recently. I’m grateful for our accomplishments and friendship over the past 3 years. With 21 years that I have dedicated to this band, it does not sit well with me to leave or abandon what I’ve considered to be my “life’s work.” I don’t feel that I, or others, should be forced out like so many have in the past. After all that’s been put into this, I believe that with the right adjustments and restructuring, our music can continue to thrive and explore new possibilities in a healthier environment. Over time, As I Lay Dying has been held back by dysfunction, and I feel that it’s no longer my responsibility to bear that burden. Thank you to everyone who has shown support for me and the music of As I Lay Dying. I’m looking forward to putting my energy and creativity into new, more positive ventures in the near future."
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| A Real Mönkey Posts: 1217  |
Yeah this band is Donion Rings.
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| Karlabos Posts: 5759  |
Why is this kinda funny? 
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| Cynic Metalhead Ambrish Saxena Posts: 7596  |
Written by Karlabos on 31.10.2024 at 18:14 My inside source said that newest member agree to join the band is the hitman.
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| no one Posts: 661  |
Written by Karlabos on 31.10.2024 at 18:14 As i lay dying, one member? Got to be a dsbm project.
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| Liafev Posts: 663  |
I usually don’t care for sure inside stories all that much. But in that case I would really like to at least know whether there’s one or not. Cause either the guy is even more a fucking dick than we thought he was (the bar was high already), or all the other members quitting suddenly like this is extremely hypocritical because they knew what they were stepping in. I hope if some story comes out soon, it won’t be one in which someone got hurt by him at least..
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| Karlabos Posts: 5759 |
Written by no one on 31.10.2024 at 19:10 In his case I bet on dungeon synth... ha!
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| Aries Rising Posts: 571  |
We can already just crown this whole fiasco as the drama of the year winner.
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| The Melting Snow Posts: 679  |
Ooo all this so close to album release. way to sell the records
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| Cynic Metalhead Ambrish Saxena Posts: 7596 |
Here's the latest spin Tim gave to AILD, Hi everyone, I needed some time to process all that has happened recently with AILD. As I reflect, I certainly agree that there was an unhealthy environment that made leaving for a new tour with the previous lineup unrealistic. It had become difficult to figure out even the smallest details, and I admit I can stick strong to my vision for the future of AILD even when others think it should go another direction. It saddens me to think about the behaviors, communication, and patterns of interaction that led up to the tour cancellation. Phil and I no longer saw eye to personally, creatively, or financially. Discussions during this time prompted his decision to depart first, with each of the touring members deciding to leave shortly after, as they were not interested in going on without him. Unfortunately, that wasn’t the order in which everything was made public, as some statements were rushed out during a chaotic time in response to rumors. I fully support each of the guys’ decisions to leave and believe at this time it is best for everyone. With that being said, my door will always remain open to discussing anything directly as I believe closing communication lead to many assumptions and problems of its own. Now, regarding what’s next: AILD was founded on persistence and determination. For anyone who is familiar with the foundational years from 2000-2004, you know that more than 20 people (whom I’m incredibly grateful for) have come and gone to help bring to life this vision I’ve had in my head since I was 19 years old. I look forward to building a new team, and creating an atmosphere that is supportive, positive, and fosters a creative environment. “Through Storms Ahead” will still be released November 15. I am proud of what we created and look forward to sharing it with all of you.
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| Daniell _爱情_ Elite Posts: 6109  |
Such things are always about money. Lambesis must be holding all the power in the band and other members are just hires. He refused to pay them what they wanted, so they left. In Polish we have a saying "if you don't know what something is about, it's about money".
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| Karlabos Posts: 5759 |
Makes me wonder how much does the guy earn...? I get that he's the frontman of a very famous metalcore band, but metalcore itself is not the most popular genre out there, is it? Does he really earn that much to just hire the band members and call it a band, also still has enough for touringa and all just like that?
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| no one Posts: 661 |
Maybe it's because he's roiding out again https://www.metalsucks.net/2024/11/27/as-i-lay-dyings-tim-lambesis-was-a-dick-again/
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