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Metal heads and fat chics (no offense girls)



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Posted by flickaa, 04.08.2010 - 10:08
I have been in the metal scene for a few years and I've noticed that most metal heads like to date fat girls.. I am really wondering why this is happening.. Does anybody know????

NO OFFENSE to girls that have a few exta pounds... in fact you people are lucky!!!!

=)

Please give me your opinions.
14.02.2011 - 21:35
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Tage Westerlund
Written by Milena on 14.02.2011 at 20:29

Yeah, good point, and that is why metalheads don't rebel against their parents anymore, but against sociaety and people their age. Which, again, includes a lot of chunky girls, since they're considered less valued by the hip standards of most people their age.

I dont think smeone rebel here in Scandinavia, her eis less anti social ok hells angels and bandido arte anti social, but still its down south and here is not so anto social anymore , even its complicated explain, I would say nowdays only way to be rebelion is say I support Isreal, put a jewish star on t shirt and say I love Isreal, IMO it is only way to be rebelion and make mob engry, otherwise metal, biker , punk, red hair, skin head girls dont works anymore
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15.02.2011 - 14:43
Milena
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Well, here it pretty much works, metalheads have a reputation of Satan's children
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15.02.2011 - 14:46
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Tage Westerlund
Written by Milena on 15.02.2011 at 14:43

Well, here it pretty much works, metalheads have a reputation of Satan's children

Whoe contries who was under comunistic wing has such reputraition, funny is in ussr it was atheism, many never belived in God, but when see metalheda theu are satanists, huh where is logic ....and metal was evil in both sythems in west and east LOL
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15.02.2011 - 21:46
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Written by Bad English on 15.02.2011 at 14:46

Written by Milena on 15.02.2011 at 14:43

Well, here it pretty much works, metalheads have a reputation of Satan's children

Whoe contries who was under comunistic wing has such reputraition, funny is in ussr it was atheism, many never belived in God, but when see metalheda theu are satanists, huh where is logic ....and metal was evil in both sythems in west and east LOL

well you both are wright on this one ....I've been called a satanist by both atheists and believers,but I am atheist...
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25.02.2011 - 03:16
WickedBuddhi
I don't mind chubby chicks. Hahaha.... Funny thread.
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25.02.2011 - 15:07
BrokenKnuckles
More cushin for the pushin
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06.03.2011 - 17:19
Karolina
I think that also personality in very important
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06.03.2011 - 18:20
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Tage Westerlund
Written by Karolina on 06.03.2011 at 17:19

I think that also personality in very important

hello Carolina from Poland, Belgie who sings in Sceptic Minds , see ya in facebook
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08.03.2011 - 02:55
Yojimbo
Same reason why most of us (guys) are ugly, metal isn't for the beautiful. It's dirty, nasty, mean, and ugly. It's real.
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08.03.2011 - 04:44
Fat & Sassy!
Elite
Written by Yojimbo on 08.03.2011 at 02:55

Same reason why most of us (guys) are ugly, metal isn't for the beautiful. It's dirty, nasty, mean, and ugly. It's real.

EXPLAIN THIS THEN
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Iq2zXDx1Uw&feature=related
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08.03.2011 - 05:09
Yojimbo
Written by Fat & Sassy! on 08.03.2011 at 04:44

Written by Yojimbo on 08.03.2011 at 02:55

Same reason why most of us (guys) are ugly, metal isn't for the beautiful. It's dirty, nasty, mean, and ugly. It's real.

EXPLAIN THIS THEN
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Iq2zXDx1Uw&feature=related

That actually made me feel like puking and then pushing someone down into that puke.
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08.03.2011 - 05:19
Fat & Sassy!
Elite
Written by Yojimbo on 08.03.2011 at 05:09

That actually made me feel like puking and then pushing someone down into that puke.

Alright, Capt. Friendly. ;3
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08.03.2011 - 11:55
Vivi'
Written by Yojimbo on 08.03.2011 at 02:55

Same reason why most of us (guys) are ugly, metal isn't for the beautiful. It's dirty, nasty, mean, and ugly. It's real.

Oh, is it also for the stupid? Because most of the real people are stupid, lazy, etc.
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08.03.2011 - 12:07
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Tage Westerlund
Written by Vivi' on 08.03.2011 at 11:55

Written by Yojimbo on 08.03.2011 at 02:55

Same reason why most of us (guys) are ugly, metal isn't for the beautiful. It's dirty, nasty, mean, and ugly. It's real.

Oh, is it also for the stupid? Because most of the real people are stupid, lazy, etc.

real ppl those who live perfect life, work in a bank, are so boring, IMO, all hood be perfecrt non dust on floor, non dirt on jeans, nothing, sleep at 21:00 work 16 h per work, generaly if you have no free time to spend whit wife its nota life, work is 8h or less other free time is life not life is work, I think those perfect ppl specely who has ''perfect carear' extremly boring, IMO they have most problems in realatinships what they hide
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08.03.2011 - 13:06
Ag Fox
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Obviously bankers don't sleep at 21:00. Don't know where you got that idea from...
my ex worked in a bank. we usually sleep around 1 / 2 am during weekdays
a few of my friends are investment bankers. Getting about 4 hours of sleep a day is considered a rare luxury.
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08.03.2011 - 13:56
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Tage Westerlund
Written by Ag Fox on 08.03.2011 at 13:06

Obviously bankers don't sleep at 21:00. Don't know where you got that idea from...
my ex worked in a bank. we usually sleep around 1 / 2 am during weekdays
a few of my friends are investment bankers. Getting about 4 hours of sleep a day is considered a rare luxury.

I know some bankers who totaly depresd and fucked up in brains after sellery drops and besides take a job at home, and thik about bank deals all time
job is 8h you work it whit ehh who cares and come home and enjoy life, not take thinks home and generaly jome is bank and problems
I would like hells angels life , no work, do whatever you want, If I get 1million in lothery I never will wrk and waste it how Boris Becker did
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08.03.2011 - 15:31
IronAngel
Written by Karolina on 06.03.2011 at 17:19

I think that also personality in very important

What does obesity say about your personality, though? In all likelyhood, that you're lazy and have no regard for your health or appearance. It's not just about aesthetics (though I couldn't date an excessively fat girl any more than I could an anorectic because they wouldn't turn me on and sexuality is a part of a relationship). "It's in the genes!" is usually just an excuse. In general, the effect of biological predetermination is marginal. People who really couldn't help their obesity no matter what are few and far between, and most people are just making excuses for their lack of spine and poor way of life. So in most cases, obesity is a good indicator of personality.
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08.03.2011 - 15:41
Vivi'
Written by IronAngel on 08.03.2011 at 15:31

What does obesity say about your personality, though? In all likelyhood, that you're lazy and have no regard for your health or appearance. It's not just about aesthetics (though I couldn't date an excessively fat girl any more than I could an anorectic because they wouldn't turn me on and sexuality is a part of a relationship). "It's in the genes!" is usually just an excuse. In general, the effect of biological predetermination is marginal. People who really couldn't help their obesity no matter what are few and far between, and most people are just making excuses for their lack of spine and poor way of life. So in most cases, obesity is a good indicator of personality.

I agree, but obesity is a matter of perception. Model's measurements - 90cm/60cm/90cm, 40 kilograms, 170 cm tall are just ridiculous and not good looking at all.
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08.03.2011 - 15:48
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Written by Vivi' on 08.03.2011 at 15:41

I agree, but obesity is a matter of perception. Model's measurements - 90cm/60cm/90cm, 40 kilograms, 170 cm tall are just ridiculous and not good looking at all.

I agree ...
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08.03.2011 - 16:31
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Tage Westerlund
Written by Vivi' on 08.03.2011 at 15:41

Written by IronAngel on 08.03.2011 at 15:31

What does obesity say about your personality, though? In all likelyhood, that you're lazy and have no regard for your health or appearance. It's not just about aesthetics (though I couldn't date an excessively fat girl any more than I could an anorectic because they wouldn't turn me on and sexuality is a part of a relationship). "It's in the genes!" is usually just an excuse. In general, the effect of biological predetermination is marginal. People who really couldn't help their obesity no matter what are few and far between, and most people are just making excuses for their lack of spine and poor way of life. So in most cases, obesity is a good indicator of personality.

I agree, but obesity is a matter of perception. Model's measurements - 90cm/60cm/90cm, 40 kilograms, 170 cm tall are just ridiculous and not good looking at all.

I dont like models, its to slim, to ''week'' not for me, its to perfect . Not all, but generaly men wories about penis are to small, women wanna be model, get model boddy and bigger boobs, when ppl has those problems, its not good, personality not body size n mesurmantes
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08.03.2011 - 17:29
flickaa
Looking like a model is almost unapproachable for for most people.... I dont fit the standards cus im short as %uck... haha so there goes my modeling career I'll just stick to being a metalhead lol
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08.03.2011 - 20:45
IronAngel
Written by Vivi' on 08.03.2011 at 15:41

Written by IronAngel on 08.03.2011 at 15:31

What does obesity say about your personality, though? In all likelyhood, that you're lazy and have no regard for your health or appearance. It's not just about aesthetics (though I couldn't date an excessively fat girl any more than I could an anorectic because they wouldn't turn me on and sexuality is a part of a relationship). "It's in the genes!" is usually just an excuse. In general, the effect of biological predetermination is marginal. People who really couldn't help their obesity no matter what are few and far between, and most people are just making excuses for their lack of spine and poor way of life. So in most cases, obesity is a good indicator of personality.

I agree, but obesity is a matter of perception. Model's measurements - 90cm/60cm/90cm, 40 kilograms, 170 cm tall are just ridiculous and not good looking at all.

Absolutely. I'm definetely not grease police. I'm talking about people with BMI around 28 or more. And while I do realize genetic and social predispositions will make weight control harder for some than others, it's rarely something you can't do anything about. My real issue is not with fat people in general, it is with people who insist that they can't help it. If you just don't want to do much about it, that's fine as long as I don't have to date you or pay too much of your health care bills.
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12.03.2011 - 07:19
I don't know how things are where you are from, but here the only reason it seems that metalheads are chasing the bigger girls, is because those are the only metal chicks that are available. There are lots of attractive, smart, classy women who are a part of the scene, but they are mostly all in exclusive long term relationships. Even so, I wouldn't go so far as to call it a noticeable trend, though this may be different if there are a lot of bigger girls around...

Everyone has their healthy weight, some will always carry a few extra pounds while others will look like toothpicks and a few others will appear to be perfect. So long as you are a healthy weight, have a good personality and some class and character, I don't see why size should matter much.
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14.03.2011 - 01:18
moe5512
Written by odious.infinity on 12.03.2011 at 07:19

I don't know how things are where you are from, but here the only reason it seems that metalheads are chasing the bigger girls, is because those are the only metal chicks that are available.

spot on

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14.03.2011 - 07:54
Angelic Storm
Melodious
You can be smart and classy, while at the same time not being physically attractive. I still have mainly only seen metalheads with skinny girlfriends, so where this notion has came from that metal guys can "only get fat chicks, because they are all that's available", I really have no idea. At least in my own personal experience, this is not the case at all. The one thing this thread has pretty much proved, (although I have always known it) is metal fans are not really any less superficial than anyone else.
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14.03.2011 - 08:55
Fat & Sassy!
Elite
Written by Angelic Storm on 14.03.2011 at 07:54

The one thing this thread has pretty much proved, (although I have always known it) is metal fans are not really any less superficial than anyone else.

^This. I mean, after all... People are people.
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22.03.2011 - 05:04
Written by Angelic Storm on 14.03.2011 at 07:54

You can be smart and classy, while at the same time not being physically attractive. I still have mainly only seen metalheads with skinny girlfriends, so where this notion has came from that metal guys can "only get fat chicks, because they are all that's available", I really have no idea. At least in my own personal experience, this is not the case at all. The one thing this thread has pretty much proved, (although I have always known it) is metal fans are not really any less superficial than anyone else.

I think you may have misinterpreted what I was saying...I meant that whenever it seems that metalheads are chasing fat chicks, it is usually because there are no hot ones around. This of course does not include those who have found someone who is bigger and likes them, because that is not what the thread is about.

Most of the metalheads I know (myself included, mostly excluding those men who are fat slobs themselves) have fit and usually pretty (physically) attractive girlfriends. Obviously this is a crowd where men outnumber women, and in any such crowd, the women get their pick of the lot and therefore the attractive ones do not have to be single for any longer than they want to (most of the time...again there are exceptions to every rule, especially since a lot of metal chicks have high standards that most metal guys don't exactly meet).

This puts the less attractive/charismatic/skilled dudes at a serious disadvantage, which leaves them to either date/chase non-metal chicks, or lower their physical standards.

This is what I meant when I said 'they are all that is available."

P.S. Usually the 'fat chicks' in the metal crowd are pretty cool, a lot of the 'hot chicks' are just looking for attention and/or totally catty and completely insane.
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22.03.2011 - 05:33
Angelic Storm
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Written by odious.infinity on 22.03.2011 at 05:04
I think you may have misinterpreted what I was saying...I meant that whenever it seems that metalheads are chasing fat chicks, it is usually because there are no hot ones around. This of course does not include those who have found someone who is bigger and likes them, because that is not what the thread is about.

Most of the metalheads I know (myself included, mostly excluding those men who are fat slobs themselves) have fit and usually pretty (physically) attractive girlfriends.

Obviously this is a crowd where men outnumber women, and in any such crowd, the women get their pick of the lot and therefore the attractive ones do not have to be single for any longer than they want to (most of the time...again there are exceptions to every rule, especially since a lot of metal chicks have high standards that most metal guys don't exactly meet).

This puts the less attractive/charismatic/skilled dudes at a serious disadvantage, which leaves them to either date/chase non-metal chicks, or lower their physical standards.

This is what I meant when I said 'they are all that is available."

P.S. Usually the 'fat chicks' in the metal crowd are pretty cool, a lot of the 'hot chicks' are just looking for attention and/or totally catty and completely insane.

That doesn't really make much sense though. As you said, most metalheads (and contrary to the OP's belief) have fit and physically attractive girlfriends. This then seems to be at odds with the statement that they'd have to "lower their physical standards". Besides, Ive seen a few what most would deem to be "unattractive blokes" with pretty girlfriends. So what you said as regards to that, is also not accurate, at least not as an absolute statement. The majority of male metalheads regardless of physical appearance, actually have "conventionally attractive" girlfriends, so my point still stands that the metal guys with "fat/not conventionally attractive" chicks are in the minority, not the majority. And my point that metalheads are not really any less superficial than any other group of people is one that is also true.

As for your last point, I think only guys could give an accurate opinion on that, so I'll take your word for it. lol
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22.03.2011 - 05:55
Written by Angelic Storm on 22.03.2011 at 05:33

Written by odious.infinity on 22.03.2011 at 05:04
I think you may have misinterpreted what I was saying...I meant that whenever it seems that metalheads are chasing fat chicks, it is usually because there are no hot ones around. This of course does not include those who have found someone who is bigger and likes them, because that is not what the thread is about.

Most of the metalheads I know (myself included, mostly excluding those men who are fat slobs themselves) have fit and usually pretty (physically) attractive girlfriends.

Obviously this is a crowd where men outnumber women, and in any such crowd, the women get their pick of the lot and therefore the attractive ones do not have to be single for any longer than they want to (most of the time...again there are exceptions to every rule, especially since a lot of metal chicks have high standards that most metal guys don't exactly meet).

This puts the less attractive/charismatic/skilled dudes at a serious disadvantage, which leaves them to either date/chase non-metal chicks, or lower their physical standards.

This is what I meant when I said 'they are all that is available."

P.S. Usually the 'fat chicks' in the metal crowd are pretty cool, a lot of the 'hot chicks' are just looking for attention and/or totally catty and completely insane.

That doesn't really make much sense though. As you said, most metalheads (and contrary to the OP's belief) have fit and physically attractive girlfriends. This then seems to be at odds with the statement that they'd have to "lower their physical standards". Besides, Ive seen a few what most would deem to be "unattractive blokes" with pretty girlfriends. So what you said as regards to that, is also not accurate, at least not as an absolute statement. The majority of male metalheads regardless of physical appearance, actually have "conventionally attractive" girlfriends, so my point still stands that the metal guys with "fat/not conventionally attractive" chicks are in the minority, not the majority. And my point that metalheads are not really any less superficial than any other group of people is one that is also true.

As for your last point, I think only guys could give an accurate opinion on that, so I'll take your word for it. lol

All I am saying is that if it seems like metalheads are chasing the big girls, it is because all the fit ones are usually in relationships. Men outnumber women, so that means that if you are a girl of any size or shape, you have a higher chance of a guy taking interest in you in a metal crowd as opposed to in a more mainstream crowd where the ratio of men:women is more equal.

I see metal girls all the time exploiting this who are not attractive, not fit, etc. who sleep with swarms of metalheads who in turn dote upon/fuck/fight over said girls. This is what I think of when someone says 'metalheads like fattys.'
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22.03.2011 - 06:16
Angelic Storm
Melodious
Written by odious.infinity on 22.03.2011 at 05:55
All I am saying is that if it seems like metalheads are chasing the big girls, it is because all the fit ones are usually in relationships. Men outnumber women, so that means that if you are a girl of any size or shape, you have a higher chance of a guy taking interest in you in a metal crowd as opposed to in a more mainstream crowd where the ratio of men:women is more equal.

Ah okay, I see what you mean now. That is also likely the reason why a lot of male metalheads have girlfriends who do not like metal music. And they have to try and introduce them to it. Because I think a lot of metalheads would rather have a physically attractive woman who isn't a metalhead, than one who is a metalhead, but is not "conventionally attractive".

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I see metal girls all the time exploiting this who are not attractive, not fit, etc. who sleep with swarms of metalheads who in turn dote upon/fuck/fight over said girls. This is what I think of when someone says 'metalheads like fattys.'

That is something I can't really comment on, because it's not something I have any knowledge of. But I'm sure it goes on. Still though, metalheads with "fat chicks" are in a minority, despite heavily outnumbering the female metal fans. So the notion posed by this thread, that metalheads prefer fat, "conventionally unattractive" girls, is one that I think is not true at all.
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