Written by Coté on 25.03.2011 at 17:16

I don't know if there's a connection between metalheads and fat chics, but I've seen something similar here in Sweden. Understand, I'm originally from Chile and there as almost everywhere else, the guys like slim girls. So it was a huge surprise to see very good looking guys (almost like models) being together with really fat girsl, I mean it, Really Fat Girls! as in two-people-could-fit-in-your-pants kind of girls. Maybe they're blind or they fell for the girls' sweet and nice personality or many sweds have a fetish when it comes to fat girl...I don't really know.

I have seen it to but dont ask me why ...maybe they good cooking or are good house wifes, do all those thinks, but I dont know
I woul more prefer girl who dont care uif tehre dusts atr house, house is clean, and so on, who's free of social accepted life standarts and who's outlaw like me , dont care about those thinks , but why i it I cant explain
But get SM Guld is mor eimportant now how get GF

Written by [user id=107773] on 27.03.2011 at 14:43

Written by Yasmine on 25.03.2011 at 20:55

Written by ADIresiduos on 25.03.2011 at 00:45

Would you mind sharing that list of yours? just curious, would really like to see what makes you rule out almost all men...
I agree that all of us have preferences for a certain "type" of girl/guy, but believe me, I know a lot of people that ended up having a girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband which apparently was not their "type"...:noidea:
Who knows, one of these days maybe you'll meet someone which will make you forget about those "rules":thumbup:
Give yourself a chance, Yasmine

haha maybe, but I'm happy with the current BF. lol

Well lets see, somethings that I excude right away on are....... (Hate away on it, but it won't change it. lol) Southern US accents/rednecks/hillbillies etc. Nasty, nasty nasty nasty, creeps me the hell out. Control issues/pseudo masculinity/chest thumping. Even if it's just during some stupid football game. I don't tolerant any man trying to be boss in my place, that being said I'm not bossy either. We discuss things, make choice, but the second a guy demands I do something he goes bye bye. His friends, bringing your pals over to watch football, etc etc and they end up watching me clean, cook, etc gets you a 1 way trip to their couch. My friends, I keep good friends, get along, or else. And finally we're a wild bunch, my date must have a ton of energy, hence I absolutely WILL NOT date an older man, ever.

Looks wise, not much here, if you think that being unkept and generally cavemanish looking is pleasing for us due to your laziness I promise you I won't even talk to you. lol Otherwise, don't matter, I don't even require a guy be tall like so many chicks, average height, hell my height don't care. I love long hair, but it's not even kinda a must. I like pretty men, but I've dated other types too.

And now for the part that men here will hate, I'm just about if not the world's biggest fag hag, so if you feel homophobic around my friends, utter a single bad thought, I toss you out, no if and or buts. +1000000 wild points in bed if my date is bisexual.

Them are my type, rules, whatever ya wanna call it, it rules out most men. In the end I am very picky, I am a girl who knows what she wants and I waited to get it, and I am glad I did.

Damn thats a lotta criteria , how do guys cope with all that? 0.0

I found me a pretty man, he's done extremely well I've yet to have to remind him of rules. But it does rule out most guys!:kopkop:

I haven't really noticed this phenomenon as such, but the thing is there are many, many more guys in the metal scene than women. So therefore there is less choice for a guy who wants to find a girlfriend in the metal scene and the fat girls get guys easier because simply, there is not much choice out there, the skinny ones get snapped up quick. A phenomenon I have noticed however, is how many metalhead guys have goth girlfriends.

I've only ever dated "petite" girls - all under 5'5", all under 130lbs.

Not because I'm shallow and I hate on "fat chicks", but those are the types of girls who seem to like me.

Written by Troy Killjoy on 27.03.2011 at 16:10

I've only ever dated "petite" girls - all under 5'5", all under 130lbs.

Europize those sizes thet all can understand

Stuart - When I 1th time was at stokholm I saw one metal guy, he was more like 80's glam style, his GF was fat, but beck than I did not pay attention
Same year I saw Hells Angel Biker and his Old Lady was lil to fat side, but I dont think she was fat, more she was born lil lil ''bigger'' and but she also was at 40's he at 50's so

At 5'5 bout 125-130, I'm outta your range. lol losing another 10lbs or maybe 7-8 would be rib cage time, so I am happy where I am. I'm definitly not goth. lol

I remeber Ozzy watch weather forcaste and 88 degries he Jaackk, Jaack come here what is it 88¤c degries Jack where are you LOL 88 F not C Ozzy

Written by Bad English on 27.03.2011 at 16:24

Written by Troy Killjoy on 27.03.2011 at 16:10

I've only ever dated "petite" girls - all under 5'5", all under 130lbs.

Europize those sizes thet all can understand

All shorter than 165cm, all lighter than 60kg.

I find myself not attracted to tall/muscular/over compensating guys. They can be as short as me, no problem. lol

I'm about 5'11", 130lbs. Not overly tall, and definitely not big.

Written by Troy Killjoy on 27.03.2011 at 16:42

I'm about 5'11", 130lbs. Not overly tall, and definitely not big.

Oh no hun, I wasn't talking about you. No reference to you at all, I was just saying I don't care about height at all. Just the complete combo kinda turns me off.

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 16:46

Written by Troy Killjoy on 27.03.2011 at 16:42

I'm about 5'11", 130lbs. Not overly tall, and definitely not big.

Oh no hun, I wasn't talking about you. No reference to you at all, I was just saying I don't care about height at all. Just the complete combo kinda turns me off.

And I thought I had a chance!

Written by Troy Killjoy on 27.03.2011 at 16:46

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 16:46

Written by Troy Killjoy on 27.03.2011 at 16:42

I'm about 5'11", 130lbs. Not overly tall, and definitely not big.

Oh no hun, I wasn't talking about you. No reference to you at all, I was just saying I don't care about height at all. Just the complete combo kinda turns me off.

And I thought I had a chance!

Well to honest, you're only tall so I actually wouldn't exclude you right off the bat. lol

you two are gonna love this website

Written by Valentin B on 27.03.2011 at 17:12

you two are gonna love this website

I don't think Troy would, my BF would be in the bed too. I don't think Troy is down for that. lol

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:15

Written by Valentin B on 27.03.2011 at 17:12

you two are gonna love this website

I don't think Troy would, my BF would be in the bed too. I don't think Troy is down for that. lol

I'm down so long as we don't have a lightsaber duel.

Written by Troy Killjoy on 27.03.2011 at 17:15

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:15

Written by Valentin B on 27.03.2011 at 17:12

you two are gonna love this website

I don't think Troy would, my BF would be in the bed too. I don't think Troy is down for that. lol

I'm down so long as we don't have a lightsaber duel.

You don't have to, I'd like it, but no not a requirement. lol, now where is J.O.O.E.......This sounds bad. lol:noidea:

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:18


You don't have to, I'd like it, but no not a requirement. lol, now where is J.O.O.E.......This sounds bad. lol:noidea:

O.o

bear in mind I come dressed with eyeliner and bright dyed red hair and some odd bedroom choices.

Written by [user id=4365] on 27.03.2011 at 17:30

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:18


You don't have to, I'd like it, but no not a requirement. lol, now where is J.O.O.E.......This sounds bad. lol:noidea:

O.o

bear in mind I come dressed with eyeliner and bright dyed red hair and some odd bedroom choices.

Yes, that's kinda why you got invited.....lol

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:33



Yes, that's kinda why you got invited.....lol

A wise choice, even if I do say so myself.

Written by [user id=4365] on 27.03.2011 at 17:34

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:33



Yes, that's kinda why you got invited.....lol

A wise choice, even if I do say so myself.

Yep, stereotypical males are boring in and outta bed. I require guys more up your alley. lol

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:38


Yep, stereotypical males are boring in and outta bed. I require guys more up your alley. lol

Alley, bush, roof, kitchen table, etc. - it's all good if you ask me.

Written by [user id=4365] on 27.03.2011 at 17:41

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:38


Yep, stereotypical males are boring in and outta bed. I require guys more up your alley. lol

Alley, bush, roof, kitchen table, etc. - it's all good if you ask me.

We've done alley, kitchen table, the car, lol a few others......Waiting to get busted for it, my friend did with her man. lol

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:43

Written by [user id=4365] on 27.03.2011 at 17:41

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:38


Yep, stereotypical males are boring in and outta bed. I require guys more up your alley. lol

Alley, bush, roof, kitchen table, etc. - it's all good if you ask me.

We've done alley, kitchen table, the car, lol a few others......Waiting to get busted for it, my friend did with her man. lol

I got busted a few years ago on a bench in a Wine Vineyard. Odd experience.

Goddamnit, Joe and Troy. You guys are such sluts! D:< Our bizarre love triangle has turned into what?... A love octagon now? I will not have this. >_>

Written by [user id=113163] on 27.03.2011 at 20:55

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:43

Written by [user id=4365] on 27.03.2011 at 17:41

Written by Yasmine on 27.03.2011 at 17:38


Yep, stereotypical males are boring in and outta bed. I require guys more up your alley. lol

Alley, bush, roof, kitchen table, etc. - it's all good if you ask me.

We've done alley, kitchen table, the car, lol a few others......Waiting to get busted for it, my friend did with her man. lol

I got busted a few years ago on a bench in a Wine Vineyard. Odd experience.

Yea, my friends got busted on a park bench and I even told them it was just terrible luck, that bench is in the back of the park which is almost outta the city.

as for Troy and Joe, get off, they're mine now, I sucked em in. LOL

Written by flickaa on 04.08.2010 at 10:08

I have been in the metal scene for a few years and I've noticed that most metal heads like to date fat girls.. I am really wondering why this is happening.. Does anybody know????

NO OFFENSE to girls that have a few exta pounds... in fact you people are lucky!!!!

=)

Please give me your opinions.

In Ireland's case, it's because a SINGLE female metalhead is really really rare. It's mostly a boys club over here, so most metal guys will take whatever they can get. I have seen loads of male metal fans with girlfriends who don't listen to metal sure, but a hot single female metal head? I can't say I have ever seen one here. And I've been to a good few concerts too.

Written by Malevolent-Jim on 27.03.2011 at 21:29

I have seen loads of male metal fans with girlfriends who don't listen to metal sure, but a hot single female metal head? I can't say I have ever seen one here. And I've been to a good few concerts too.

Exactly. I've only dated on girl who listened to metal, and by the time she started listening to it we weren't actually dating anymore, just good friends. Another ex of mine listens to a lot of alternative stuff, screamo, deathcore and melodic metalcore, but that's not exactly a mutual taste.

Written by Troy Killjoy on 27.03.2011 at 21:34

Written by Malevolent-Jim on 27.03.2011 at 21:29

I have seen loads of male metal fans with girlfriends who don't listen to metal sure, but a hot single female metal head? I can't say I have ever seen one here. And I've been to a good few concerts too.

Exactly. I've only dated on girl who listened to metal, and by the time she started listening to it we weren't actually dating anymore, just good friends. Another ex of mine listens to a lot of alternative stuff, screamo, deathcore and melodic metalcore, but that's not exactly a mutual taste.

It really isn't THAT easy to find a guy my age who listen to metal in my area other than nu-metal and rap-rock. You have to do some searching. lol

Written by Troy Killjoy on 27.03.2011 at 21:34

Written by Malevolent-Jim on 27.03.2011 at 21:29

I have seen loads of male metal fans with girlfriends who don't listen to metal sure, but a hot single female metal head? I can't say I have ever seen one here. And I've been to a good few concerts too.

Exactly. I've only dated on girl who listened to metal, and by the time she started listening to it we weren't actually dating anymore, just good friends. Another ex of mine listens to a lot of alternative stuff, screamo, deathcore and melodic metalcore, but that's not exactly a mutual taste.

I've never been on a date. I want to go out with someone with at least a similar music taste to me...And to be honest so far it's not happening. I nearly never see female metal fans, in fact this forums has the highest concentration of metal chics I have ever seen.